Men, Women, Youth should have Trades. Develop ways, at least of providing services for people that are needed.
A man should not seek out a woman on beauty alone, just as a woman should not seek out a man on just money alone.
How well do they communicate together?
Do they both have passions toward things, so when one mate is busy, the other can keep themselves busy & not be miserable based upon the other focused in on their work/passions in life.
Neither man nor woman should ever stop learning. Learning goes way beyond the four corners of a classroom.